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What to wear, what to wear…

What to wear to a wedding in Paris?

That’s the big question on my mind right now.

I had mentioned in my budget recap that we are going to go to France and England next year for weddings, and while I have the English one down pat…. France poses a bit of a question for me.

I of course, turned to BF to bug him about what women wear to weddings.

FB: What do they wear in Paris? Is it more formal than here? Less?

Wait, what’s your idea of formal because when I went to a beach wedding, people showed up in flip flops and sundresses.

Is that formal? Or beach formal?

What did they wear when you went? Didn’t you bring a camera? Do you have pictures?

Typical boy answer: “Umm.. Women wear …a dress? Not in black or white?”

Arg.

So I turned to my best friend: Google.

Turns out, they DO NOT dress up for a wedding like they do here in North America unless the couple is some pish posh high society pair… which, the bride and groom are NOT.

Go figure. :D

Black is apparently OK but white is NO-KAY. But since I don’t really wear anything black, I’m safe.

And they also have two outfits — one for the day, a more casual one for the evening. *salivates*

I wish I had some pictures of French weddings that people have been to, but barring that, I am thinking along the lines of not having to purchase ANYTHING for the wedding we’re attending next year.

So, I don’t need to buy a tight satin cocktail dress with bling all over the place?

AWESOME.

I mean, I won’t show up in this $30 Target dress (which I looove btw)


But maybe something like this Ann Taylor dress I got on sale in Chicago that is comfortable and drapey, because I hear French weddings are B-I-G on FOOD!



I would just need a light shawl or something to cover my shoulders out of respect.

… maybe I’ll just buy a pair of cute bronze or pink sandals to match the dress ;) And I’ll switch into a wrap dress if I have to, for the evening so that I don’t freeze my butt off if it happens to be cold.

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In my own handwriting….

I used FontCapture.com via LifeHacker’s post to fill out a printed grid, scan in the finished grid and create this message in my own handwriting….

Pretty awesome huh?

Thanks to Håkon Bertheussen at FontCapture who created the concept behind the site, people like me (not a business or anything) won’t have to pay $50 – $70 USD for a program just to create their own fonts, if they aren’t up to snuff in Photoshop to do it on their own.

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August 2009: Budget Recap

Went to Portugal, and that is on a separate budget.. kind of. Hard to say what we spent on food, when we ate most of it in Portugal, you know?

Income (Savings, Withdrawals, Refunds, Reimbursements..)

$750 taken out of my Savings (Living Expenses, Other)
$2000 taken out for Portugal trip
$541.37 finally got paid from cash on a side job
$400 cash found in my wallet again
$50.62 from the blog (I wasn’t really on Swagbucks this month or I would have had an extra $50 – $75 this month)

TOTAL: $3741.99

EXPENSES

Cost of Portugal Trip

I had originally wanted a budget of $2000, maximum.

If we spend about $1000 on travelling and food to domestic cities (I consider U.S. to be close enough to be domestic), then $2000 should be a good estimate for overseas.

Let’s see how I did:

$1205.79 —- Flight to Portugal
$251.55 —- 5 Star Tiara Hotel (was a deal)
$20.92 —- Coach bus to travel from Porto to Lisbon
$370.27 —- Food

Total: $1848.53

Sweet. I came under by $151.47.

I didn’t buy anything for myself except a light long-sleeved cover up to stop from tanning and burning in the sun (for health reasons..) for 5.50 EUR and a pair of flip flops for 1 EUR for the beach.

I didn’t see anything I wanted to buy, to be honest. The dresses were nice, but I could find the same style or type in the States or Canada, and for cheaper.

The switch to the Euro really screwed Portugal. From what I heard, it used to be cheap to visit Portugal, but now they’re putting a slice of pizza and a pop at 12 EUR in some stores.

12 EUR = $16 CAD

I mean, I know Europe is expensive in general, but this is PORTUGAL.

They aren’t a huge, uber developed superpower like Germany or England, and the prices were shocking to us, especially to BF who had traveled around Europe before the Euro.

Something like a slice of pizza and pop when converted in the old currency, would only be around 3 EUR.

The prices (to BF) seem to have jumped up 400%. People just don’t have that kind of cash there, to purchase cheap quality pizza for 12 EUR when they can get food for free from the fields or just by cooking at home.

I had a lovely time there, after getting over the sticker shock and will post pictures .. once I get motivated to do so.

Basic Living = $554.96

  • $384.50 – Rent
  • $65.41 – Food (Not including what we ate in Portugal)
  • $15 – Internet
  • $50.79 – Cellphone
  • $4 – Laundry
  • $23.69 – Vitamin Pills
  • $11.57 – Travel stuff (very hard, durable plastic cutlery and some travel-sized tubes)

TOTAL SPEND THIS MONTH $2403.49

BALANCE: + $1338.50 (Saved)

Wow. This is the first month in a travel month that I’ve managed to come out on top in savings ;)

Thank goodness for our tiny, bare apartment :P

BF and I are also planning a final trip for this year (OMG I know.. we’re nuts) .. to tour Asia.

We’re thinking of hitting the following places on our 1 month tour:

  • Hong Kong
  • Beijing
  • Shanghai
  • Macau (for a day)
  • Thailand
  • Singapore

We haven’t set a budget but BF is confident we can keep it to $3000 each.

I am a bit more skeptical, and am thinking $4000 is a bit more reasonable for travel, lodging and food.

Plus, I am adding a $500 – $1000 budget to let me buy whatever I may want in those countries. (Hello Kitty? :D )

We also have to travel to France and England for weddings next year, so we have to keep that future budget in mind.

FINANCIAL SNAPSHOT = Increased by $5068.35

  • Stock markets really jumped this month to almost par to book value
  • Managed to sock away some money into my savings
  • My individual stocks are doing all right

ASSETS = $74,847.30

  • Cash = $125.16
  • Chequing = $10
  • Emergency Fund for 2 years = $24,000
  • General Savings = $2738.13
  • Retirement = $32, 552.07 (BV = $32, 198 — Really jumped this month)
  • Other = $25
  • Business = $13,396.94
  • Car = $2000

LIABILITIES = $0

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I had mentioned not totally loving Blogger

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But I am not sure Wordpress is a good option for me to move to. I mean, essentially they’d be hosting for me too, right?

I am not keen on paying for web hosting service, but I still wanted to check out website hosting to be sure it isn’t a bad option to switch to.

Realistically speaking, I could definitely use another blogging layout service like Square Space if this blog gets any bigger, and I may need more room to grow in the future.

I found a great list of web hosts that tell me their basic stats, and the trend seems to be web hosters allowing Unlimited Space and Unlimited Traffic (sweet!), all for a pretty low price of $8.95 a month.

Interestingly, I also came across a post on Unix hosting and its benefits that I find interesting, and will make a note of looking for a Unix hoster if I do decide to expand the blog off Blogger.

Maybe once I hit 5000 or 10,000 readers, I will consider moving it off Blogger. Or when it starts getting too lagged down and difficult to access my own site.

I am still thinking about it, but am undecided. Still, it is nice to have sites like this around to help us decide!

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Don’t have a steady cheque? Read this.

Some of you have been asking me how I budget for an irregular income.

I’ve been stumped for answers. Honestly.

To me, it is not really any different than budgeting for a steady income, you just need a different mindset to think that this money is meant to last for triple the time it was earned in.

I think it’s a lot harder for people with jobs like bartending, or waitressing because it relies heavily on tips and it can be the same sort of “feast or famine” mentality.

But I persisted in trying to figure out how I do it, and I came up with my 5 rules of what I’ve been doing lately ever since I quit my cubicle:

  • Cut back your basic fixed expenses (Rent, Utilities, Groceries, Medical)
  • Budget & check yourself for overspending (Traveling is in here. I do it on the cheap)
  • Save as much as you can to live off the savings for a longer time
  • Have a chubby emergency fund (Freelancers may go 2 years without working depending on contracts)
  • Deflate your head from seeing those large cash flows – it won’t last…guaranteed.

To go into some detail…

Keep your bills low & don’t get swept away by the large amounts of cash at once:

It’s hard not to gawk at your paycheque being $16,000+ at one shot every 2 weeks.

The key is to remember that the money has to last you about 8 months on average. So $16,000 / 8 = $2000/month.

I just remind myself that I’m getting paid ahead of time, and I need to spread out the money over time rather than to get a bloated head about how much cash is being dumped into my accounts.

It’s kind of like getting a tax refund or winning the lottery. You’re so heady with the smell of cash you don’t know what to do.

The best thing to do in any case (lottery winnings, tax refunds and big cheques) is to put it away in savings.

With the money I earned, I cleared the rest of my debt, put away $10,000 into my retirement fund when the getting was still good after the crash in late 2008, and the rest went into an emergency fund.

If you can move to pay less rent, do it.

If you can study your grocery budget and save $25 a month by clipping coupons or visiting different grocery stores, do it.

The lower your expenses, and the higher your savings, the better. And that’s a good rule in general for everyone, not just irregular income earners.

Don’t be a slave to your bills.

Save when the saving is good

In the fat years, sock away as much money as possible to see you through the lean times.

My rule is that I have to have at least 2 years saved in an Emergency Fund (right now I’m at a comfortable $1000 a month, with 2 years saved ($24k).

But if I really stuck to my Basic Budget of $700 a month, it’d be almost 3 years of savings)…

I will be touching that fund next month (September 2009), and I should be good to last until around 2012 with the savings I have.

If need be, I can always pick up more freelancing side projects on the side. In fact, I would almost suggest having two freelancing jobs.

We’ve been travelling too much for me to concentrate on making my side work something steady, and I am concerned about having time to handle two freelancing jobs in case something comes up in the IT world that takes precedent over my other job.

Still, food for thought.

I basically can’t rely on a steady paycheque. I can only rely on having a lot of money at once, and then nothing for a while. And if you aren’t good at spreading out your money and budgeting, this is a good way to learn.

This recession is a good lesson for me to keep in mind for the future. Going a year or two without working is a good way to force me to keep this at the back of my mind each time a cheque rolls in.

Set priorities for bills and expenses, and stick to a general budget

My basic set of bills are: Rent, Food, Utilities, One-Off Medical Expenses. That’s it.

Everything else is extra and unnecessary, including travel.

I know that and my bank account knows that.

I do admit to having gone a bit nuts in the first couple of weeks of getting a huge cheque, such as taking my family out to dinners and whatnot.. but that ended pretty quick.

And with all the travelling I’ve been doing this year.. we’ve done it all on the cheap. About $1000 per city (all included with flight, hotel & fun), and $2000 to go to Europe for 3 weeks (all inclusive).

If our travel budget was “normal”, and cost $5000 each city, I’d only go to ONE city and end it. But since we can make $5000 last for 5 domestic cities, why not? Or 3 domestic cities, 1 international one.. you get the idea.

The main budget for travel was $5000 and how we chose to spend it was up to us.

As with regular budgeting, you have to prioritize.

Medical bills? Yup, that comes first before a new pair of boots.

I discovered many ways to have fun for free, and honestly, blogging has been a great outlet for me to channel my extra energy and time into (sometimes too much energy), and to keep me busy, having fun, and all for free!

As for eating out, we cooked in our hotel rooms when we traveled and we don’t really eat out in our home city.

The food at home is just too good to consider eat out and paying 4 times as much money for something half as good…

Don’t touch your business account:

It’s for business. You still have to pay taxes (19% in my case) and you still need to spend on expenses for when you prospect for contracts.

It may be tempting to say “Look it’s a business account.. surely I can pay a $500 meal out with friends.”

Don’t. Do. It.

It’s a business account, but it’s still YOUR account and your money. You still have to keep some sort of positive balance in there in case the need arises.

Luckily, I am in the service business. That means I don’t carry inventory, I don’t sell goods and I don’t have suppliers.

The only supplier and goods I sell, are my brains & my skills. This makes for budgeting and keeping an account a LOT simpler than if I were to run a small store for example.

If you want a more complicated set of rules where you estimate your future income and then pay yourself a salary every month (I don’t thrive on rules), check out J.D.’s similar principles on budgeting for an irregular income.

It may be a better system for you than my flexible system for dealing with irregular income. Some of the commenters are really good.

What about you, irregular income earners? Any tips you can offer on how you budget?

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