Comments on: Men & Strippers http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/men-strippers/ Just a Girl trying to find a balance between being a Shopaholic and a Saver Sun, 12 Feb 2012 21:24:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Mia http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/men-strippers/comment-page-1/#comment-77459 Mia Mon, 12 Dec 2011 18:41:00 +0000 http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/10/men-strippers/#comment-77459 Personally, if I were still single, I would never marry a man who goes to strip clubs, even when he doesn't have a girlfriend/wife/kids. Luckily, my husband is not into such things. Personally, if I were still single, I would never marry a man who goes to strip clubs, even when he doesn’t have a girlfriend/wife/kids. Luckily, my husband is not into such things.

]]> By: vanessa http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/men-strippers/comment-page-1/#comment-74753 vanessa Sat, 19 Mar 2011 00:48:00 +0000 http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/10/men-strippers/#comment-74753 I TOTALLY AGREE I TOTALLY AGREE

]]> By: FabulouslyBroke.com http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/men-strippers/comment-page-1/#comment-74067 FabulouslyBroke.com Mon, 14 Feb 2011 13:18:41 +0000 http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/10/men-strippers/#comment-74067 Good point Jimmy. I\'ve only been to Vegas once in my life, but I can see what you mean by the culture becoming embittered. Good point Jimmy. I\’ve only been to Vegas once in my life, but I can see what you mean by the culture becoming embittered.

]]> By: Jimmy http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/men-strippers/comment-page-1/#comment-74057 Jimmy Mon, 14 Feb 2011 10:26:47 +0000 http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/10/men-strippers/#comment-74057 This is a great post but there are many exceptions it left out, including where you may live and how you were raised. I live in Vegas. Strip clubs are everywhere and the sex industry has a tight hold over this city whether it's a job or not. Women out here that are not in the sex industry fleece men for money and guys can become bitter and the cycle just goes on and on. Strip clubs are entertainment, nothing more. My recent post <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Dumblittleblogcom/~3/NWgpR_51H9I/my-dream-last-night.html" rel="nofollow">My Dream Last Night</a> This is a great post but there are many exceptions it left out, including where you may live and how you were raised. I live in Vegas. Strip clubs are everywhere and the sex industry has a tight hold over this city whether it's a job or not. Women out here that are not in the sex industry fleece men for money and guys can become bitter and the cycle just goes on and on. Strip clubs are entertainment, nothing more.
My recent post My Dream Last Night

]]> By: Kevin http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/men-strippers/comment-page-1/#comment-63918 Kevin Wed, 27 Oct 2010 22:40:52 +0000 http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/10/men-strippers/#comment-63918 I know I'm a year late, but this is a great post and I want to comment. I have been to a strip club once and found it disgusting. I don't really approve of that behavior... However! I am gonna have to take issue with this statement for the guys in relationships: "But you’ve got a woman, ready to be naked for you at home!" If only that were the case. Just because you are in a relationship doesn't guarantee your girlfriend or wife is going to be in the mood to be intimate or sexy for you. The girls are always ready at the strip club. Again, I don't like it, but to say you have the same thing available at home is only true for the very lucky guys. My recent post <a href="http://www.thousandaire.com/2010/10/27/i-love-southwest-airlines/" rel="nofollow">I Love Southwest Airlines</a> I know I'm a year late, but this is a great post and I want to comment. I have been to a strip club once and found it disgusting. I don't really approve of that behavior… However! I am gonna have to take issue with this statement for the guys in relationships:

"But you’ve got a woman, ready to be naked for you at home!"

If only that were the case. Just because you are in a relationship doesn't guarantee your girlfriend or wife is going to be in the mood to be intimate or sexy for you. The girls are always ready at the strip club. Again, I don't like it, but to say you have the same thing available at home is only true for the very lucky guys.
My recent post I Love Southwest Airlines

]]> By: Michele http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/men-strippers/comment-page-1/#comment-45091 Michele Thu, 24 Jun 2010 01:43:29 +0000 http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/10/men-strippers/#comment-45091 I'm not sure if ignorance is bliss because all skeletons find their way out of the closet sooner or later. I have been married to a man that has been frequenting strip clubs for 17 years. In the beginning of our marriage it was just something that happened maybe 2 or 3 times a year, to the best of my knowledge. When I would find out about these "excursions" I would, as the last commenter said, try to be the "cool" wife and not make too big a deal of of it, but I would make it clear that I felt uncomfortable with the whole idea of my husband going to a strip club. Well as the years went by and the kids came along, my husband continued to frequent strip clubs more and more often, and I abandoned the "cool" wife routine and just became the wife who suffered in silence. On the rare occasions when I would confront my husband about his strip club visits he would either lie to my face or tell me he was not doing anything wrong & that this was my problem not his. My self esteem became nonexistent, our relationship deteriorated to the point where we rarely communicated at all except about the kids. He took over complete control of our finances behind my back, so I had no idea how much money he was spending. All that mattered to him was his strip clubs. After years of trying to make it work, 3 months ago, I finally had enough, I sat him down after one of his late nights out and told him I was done. I wanted a divorce. He couldn't believe it, he cried and begged me not to leave. He confessed that he has been going to these clubs twice a week, dropping a few hundred bucks each visit, for as long as he could remember. The lies, the betrayal, our marriage is destroyed. Is it cheating? Who cares. Anyone who says there's nothing wrong with married men going to strip clubs is wrong. My husband spend thousands of our families money, he lied, he broke our trust, he destroyed our marriage. Maybe he is an extreme case, but do you want to take a chance with your husband, your marriage? I’m not sure if ignorance is bliss because all skeletons find their way out of the closet sooner or later. I have been married to a man that has been frequenting strip clubs for 17 years. In the beginning of our marriage it was just something that happened maybe 2 or 3 times a year, to the best of my knowledge. When I would find out about these “excursions” I would, as the last commenter said, try to be the “cool” wife and not make too big a deal of of it, but I would make it clear that I felt uncomfortable with the whole idea of my husband going to a strip club. Well as the years went by and the kids came along, my husband continued to frequent strip clubs more and more often, and I abandoned the “cool” wife routine and just became the wife who suffered in silence. On the rare occasions when I would confront my husband about his strip club visits he would either lie to my face or tell me he was not doing anything wrong & that this was my problem not his. My self esteem became nonexistent, our relationship deteriorated to the point where we rarely communicated at all except about the kids. He took over complete control of our finances behind my back, so I had no idea how much money he was spending. All that mattered to him was his strip clubs. After years of trying to make it work, 3 months ago, I finally had enough, I sat him down after one of his late nights out and told him I was done. I wanted a divorce. He couldn’t believe it, he cried and begged me not to leave. He confessed that he has been going to these clubs twice a week, dropping a few hundred bucks each visit, for as long as he could remember. The lies, the betrayal, our marriage is destroyed. Is it cheating? Who cares. Anyone who says there’s nothing wrong with married men going to strip clubs is wrong. My husband spend thousands of our families money, he lied, he broke our trust, he destroyed our marriage. Maybe he is an extreme case, but do you want to take a chance with your husband, your marriage?

]]> By: LeMeow http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/men-strippers/comment-page-1/#comment-33612 LeMeow Mon, 04 Jan 2010 22:46:15 +0000 http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/07/10/men-strippers/#comment-33612 I'm all for ignorance is bliss, with stripclubs and with porn. I think my bf can watch whatever he likes (porn wise) and go to strip clubs but yeah I'd rather not know about it. Just makes me feel uncomfortable. I tried to be the "cool girlfriend" and be okay with it when we went to a friend's bday party (a stripper came to the house as a strip-o-gram) and she basically grinded up against me (because "cool girlfriend" me was trying to act like I'm not a prude and said it was okay for her to do so) but I ended up getting very embarrassed, red-faced, and extremely uncomfortable. So yeah, NOT into it. And that's okay! I don't have to be the "cool girlfriend" or the girl who pretends to be into other girls or the girl who's okay with getting lap dances from strippers. I can live without it. I'm okay with people thinking I'm a prude if that's the case! I'm all for ignorance is bliss, with stripclubs and with porn. I think my bf can watch whatever he likes (porn wise) and go to strip clubs but yeah I'd rather not know about it. Just makes me feel uncomfortable. I tried to be the "cool girlfriend" and be okay with it when we went to a friend's bday party (a stripper came to the house as a strip-o-gram) and she basically grinded up against me (because "cool girlfriend" me was trying to act like I'm not a prude and said it was okay for her to do so) but I ended up getting very embarrassed, red-faced, and extremely uncomfortable. So yeah, NOT into it. And that's okay! I don't have to be the "cool girlfriend" or the girl who pretends to be into other girls or the girl who's okay with getting lap dances from strippers. I can live without it. I'm okay with people thinking I'm a prude if that's the case!

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