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	<title>Comments on: It takes a village to raise a child&#8230;*snort*</title>
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		<title>By: hazel</title>
		<link>http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/02/it-takes-village-to-raise-childsnort/comment-page-1/#comment-24226</link>
		<dc:creator>hazel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 13:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that some parents don&#039;t CARE whether their children are well behaved and don&#039;t parent them. I do however have to say that  I have 3 children. I have parented them all the same. The first and the third are angels and very well behaved. My middle child however has been a handful. Consider that all children are not the same. Should an autistic child or hyper child never see a movie or go shopping? Living almost Large&quot; I think it would have been better to ASK the parent to get the child to quit kicking a seat etc. Because #1 That is a bad example to set and #2 you&#039;re going to come across a parent that is going to discipline YOU.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that some parents don&#8217;t CARE whether their children are well behaved and don&#8217;t parent them. I do however have to say that  I have 3 children. I have parented them all the same. The first and the third are angels and very well behaved. My middle child however has been a handful. Consider that all children are not the same. Should an autistic child or hyper child never see a movie or go shopping? Living almost Large&#8221; I think it would have been better to ASK the parent to get the child to quit kicking a seat etc. Because #1 That is a bad example to set and #2 you&#8217;re going to come across a parent that is going to discipline YOU.</p>
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		<title>By: Rach</title>
		<link>http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/02/it-takes-village-to-raise-childsnort/comment-page-1/#comment-24145</link>
		<dc:creator>Rach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 08:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I could not agree more completely or fundamentally. Today&#039;s entitlement breeders really need to learn a thing or two about raising their children with boundaries and discipline, The difference between the two is stark; the children of effective parents are a pleasure to be around, while the others... rather less so. Good on you for telling it like it is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could not agree more completely or fundamentally. Today&#8217;s entitlement breeders really need to learn a thing or two about raising their children with boundaries and discipline, The difference between the two is stark; the children of effective parents are a pleasure to be around, while the others&#8230; rather less so. Good on you for telling it like it is.</p>
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		<title>By: Living Almost Large</title>
		<link>http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/2009/02/it-takes-village-to-raise-childsnort/comment-page-1/#comment-24080</link>
		<dc:creator>Living Almost Large</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 14:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a bad person. In the movie theater I&#039;ve embarrassed my DH when I turned around and said stop kicking my chair or I will have you removed.  The parents were extremely embarrassed and moved. I have no idea if the kid kicked the next person&#039;s chair.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;When out at dinner in a booth I have gotten up and said stop hitting me on the head or else. And the or else.  Again I would call the manager and complain loudly.  Trust me, I&#039;ve worked in food service, the manager hates to upset anyone, but its&#039; easier to ask a parent to take a child outside when it&#039;s apparent the kid is being bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a bad person. In the movie theater I&#8217;ve embarrassed my DH when I turned around and said stop kicking my chair or I will have you removed.  The parents were extremely embarrassed and moved. I have no idea if the kid kicked the next person&#8217;s chair.</p>
<p>When out at dinner in a booth I have gotten up and said stop hitting me on the head or else. And the or else.  Again I would call the manager and complain loudly.  Trust me, I&#8217;ve worked in food service, the manager hates to upset anyone, but its&#8217; easier to ask a parent to take a child outside when it&#8217;s apparent the kid is being bad.</p>
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		<title>By: Another</title>
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		<dc:creator>Another</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 02:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ll probably be crucified for saying this, but ... I&#039;m a firm believer in spanking.  Obviously not all the time, I am a believer in warnings first, and obviously not so hard that your child suffers injury.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;There seems to be so much publicity and bad press over spanking these days - and that it amounts to child abuse.  I am horrified at the notion of child abuse but people who are going to abuse their children are going to do it anyway, regardless of whether they are told not to spank them.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I only remember a handful of times I was spanked as a child, and looking back, I deserved it!  And compared to children I see these days - I was an absolute angel!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;(I should note I don&#039;t have kids)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll probably be crucified for saying this, but &#8230; I&#8217;m a firm believer in spanking.  Obviously not all the time, I am a believer in warnings first, and obviously not so hard that your child suffers injury.  </p>
<p>There seems to be so much publicity and bad press over spanking these days &#8211; and that it amounts to child abuse.  I am horrified at the notion of child abuse but people who are going to abuse their children are going to do it anyway, regardless of whether they are told not to spank them.  </p>
<p>I only remember a handful of times I was spanked as a child, and looking back, I deserved it!  And compared to children I see these days &#8211; I was an absolute angel!</p>
<p>(I should note I don&#8217;t have kids)</p>
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		<title>By: mickmack</title>
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		<dc:creator>mickmack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 21:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen.  I totally agree.  I have three kids (8, 6, 2) and constantly get compliments on how well behaved they are (even when in my opinion they are being little trolls).  And K-money is SO right about parents expecting the teachers to raise their kids.  Frustrating!  We had an incident in our neighbourhood a while ago (king of the hill, minor shoving thing) and parents were phoning the school, phoning me wanting the name of the bus driver . . . it happened 40 minutes after the end of the school day, how in the world were either the school or the bus driver responsible? Nuh-uh. It was either YOU or your BABYSITTER who dropped the ball and was not supervising.  The little years are totally when the rules and boundaries are set.  Good for you FB for setting them with you nephew.  (btw, I know many parents who would be completely affronted of what you did, thinking that since they had the means to supply their child with &#039;everything&#039; then &#039;everything&#039; they shall have . . materialisticly speaking, of course).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen.  I totally agree.  I have three kids (8, 6, 2) and constantly get compliments on how well behaved they are (even when in my opinion they are being little trolls).  And K-money is SO right about parents expecting the teachers to raise their kids.  Frustrating!  We had an incident in our neighbourhood a while ago (king of the hill, minor shoving thing) and parents were phoning the school, phoning me wanting the name of the bus driver . . . it happened 40 minutes after the end of the school day, how in the world were either the school or the bus driver responsible? Nuh-uh. It was either YOU or your BABYSITTER who dropped the ball and was not supervising.  The little years are totally when the rules and boundaries are set.  Good for you FB for setting them with you nephew.  (btw, I know many parents who would be completely affronted of what you did, thinking that since they had the means to supply their child with &#8216;everything&#8217; then &#8216;everything&#8217; they shall have . . materialisticly speaking, of course).</p>
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		<title>By: Fabulously Broke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fabulously Broke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 21:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m so happy to be reading these comments and hearing that your kids (or kids you know) aren&#039;t like that.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I do agree that kids should not be let out past their nap time or bed time because it&#039;s just asking for trouble.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Saved to Save: LOL.. the fear of God.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Alex: I can&#039;t believe she yelled at you for that! I&#039;d thank you.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Always Pretty: Oh. Sugar. Not good.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;My nieces and nephews are on the most part, well behaved. But they get spoiled a lot. Not by me of course, but my parents and my sibs spoil &#039;em fairly rotten that needs a little adjusting from time to time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so happy to be reading these comments and hearing that your kids (or kids you know) aren&#8217;t like that.</p>
<p>I do agree that kids should not be let out past their nap time or bed time because it&#8217;s just asking for trouble.</p>
<p>Saved to Save: LOL.. the fear of God.</p>
<p>Alex: I can&#8217;t believe she yelled at you for that! I&#8217;d thank you.</p>
<p>Always Pretty: Oh. Sugar. Not good.</p>
<p>My nieces and nephews are on the most part, well behaved. But they get spoiled a lot. Not by me of course, but my parents and my sibs spoil &#8216;em fairly rotten that needs a little adjusting from time to time.</p>
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		<title>By: Tee aka The Diva's Thoughts</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tee aka The Diva's Thoughts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 19:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with you on this 100%. 100%!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you on this 100%. 100%!</p>
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		<title>By: K-money</title>
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		<dc:creator>K-money</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 19:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kids actually want boundaries, they test limits to find out where they are.  Limits are safety, and a child without limits will only act out more.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I have friends who are teachers and one thing they say to me is that lack of parent participation is a huge problem that is reflected in the behavior of students.  Parents send kids to school and expect teachers to do the parenting work as well as teach actual knowledge.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kids actually want boundaries, they test limits to find out where they are.  Limits are safety, and a child without limits will only act out more.</p>
<p>I have friends who are teachers and one thing they say to me is that lack of parent participation is a huge problem that is reflected in the behavior of students.  Parents send kids to school and expect teachers to do the parenting work as well as teach actual knowledge.</p>
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		<title>By: Louise</title>
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		<dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 19:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>parents need to mean what they say and call kids bluff instead of making threats that they don&#039;t carry out.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;and once you get past pre-school stage there&#039;s a very easy way to make kid&#039;s behave in the shops, just threaten to sing along loudly to the store music if they muck up. I only had to do it once :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>parents need to mean what they say and call kids bluff instead of making threats that they don&#8217;t carry out.</p>
<p>and once you get past pre-school stage there&#8217;s a very easy way to make kid&#8217;s behave in the shops, just threaten to sing along loudly to the store music if they muck up. I only had to do it once <img src='http://www.fabulouslybroke.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Little Fish</title>
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		<dc:creator>Little Fish</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 19:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s true that it is no one else&#039;s reponsibility to raise your children.  You should be a committed engaged parent who sets boundaries and instills good values.  However the &quot;it takes a village&quot; concept is about having a support system.  While good parenting is key it&#039;s hard to mold your children in to good adults when your communities are crumbling around you.  Children need love and discipline, but they also need safe housing and safe places to play, access to a quality education and a society that is committed to giving everyone a chance to succeed in life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s true that it is no one else&#8217;s reponsibility to raise your children.  You should be a committed engaged parent who sets boundaries and instills good values.  However the &#8220;it takes a village&#8221; concept is about having a support system.  While good parenting is key it&#8217;s hard to mold your children in to good adults when your communities are crumbling around you.  Children need love and discipline, but they also need safe housing and safe places to play, access to a quality education and a society that is committed to giving everyone a chance to succeed in life.</p>
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